18 Things I Have Learned in 18 Years

So today is a big day in my world because it is my 18th birthday! I can't say I haven't been counting down the days because I am super excited. But let me be honest. It has not been easy getting through eighteen years and I have learned a lot of lessons that will help me.

1. Quality Friends are the Best Friends

Yes, friends are important but it shouldn't matter how many friends you have but what type of friends you have.

2. It is Perfectly Fine to Stand Out

For the longest time, I tried to make myself be the popular kid and fit in with a certain group. What I finally learned is that being who you are is the most important thing you can do. 

3. Kindness is a Must

I have never met a mean person that was well liked. Kindness is something that will always help you out in the future.

4. Peer Pressure is Real

Peer pressure is something you will always hear about in life but it is something you have to fight. Giving in the peer pressure will only make you regret something. So make sure your decision is YOUR decision.

5. Budgeting is Important

Whether it is time or money you have to budget. It will keep your life a little more organized and you will feel a lot better.

6. It is Ok to Cry

Crying is something that just happens. There are days that a good cry is just what the doctor ordered.

7. Jam Sessions are Wonderful Mood Fixers

I am one person who you will always see singing in the car. Music is one thing that will always help improve your mood.

8. You Have to Love Yourself First

Being comfortable in your own skin is something everyone needs. If you don't love yourself, how can you love others?

9. You Need a Skill

I had a history teacher tell me that the one thing that you need is a skill. If you have a skill, the world opens for you to use what you know. 

10. There is Someone Who Always Loves You

I can guarantee that there as at least one person who loves you in your life. Whether it is a friend, family member, or community member, someone loves you.

11. The Truth Will Set You Free

This was a hard lesson for me to learn but even in hard times, the truth is always the right answer.

12. Math is Never Fun

I think math and I were made to be enemies but if you're good at math, good for you but I am convinced there is no hope for me.

13. Disney Movies Will Always Make You Happy

I am pretty sure that Disney movies are the best thing on the planet. Even when you're sad, if you put on a Disney movie, your mood will improve.

14. It's Ok to Act Silly

Being silly is just a fun part of life. Being serious all the time would just be boring.


15. Your Parents are Your Best Friends

My parents are the people I will always go to if I have something to say or if something is wrong. Parents are literally the best friends you could have.

16. Being Happy Should Be Your Main Goal

Happiness is something that should always be in focus. If you're sad, smile and look on the bright side.

17. It is Ok to Say No

If you don't like something, say no. If you feel in danger say no. No is always an acceptable answer.

18. Life is Short

If I have learned one thing in 18 years, it is that life is short and it goes by way too fast. So make sure you enjoy!

What is a life lesson you have learned?

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